you cannot raise your children different, you cannot watch different shows, you cannot be YOURSELF without being attack and jumped all over for doing so.
It is now a site for women who have no lives and only crave the drama and plain evilness that comes from all the negative attention they are giving and getting.

Things about people needing advice or a death of a loved one or things that are happy and positive and nice are ignored and only the posts about the lady next door who yells a lot, or the dick head at the store who used food stamps while he looked at his blackberry, and gossip posts get the attention.
And god forbid you have any other view than what the majority of the women on there think you should have.

The creators and moderators are doing nothing to remedy it and I see nothing be negativity bring the website crashing and burning.

If the women there think there’s no men because of the website title, then they are very naive. Text on a screen is not a physical barrier. And just because some has a set of boobs doesn’t make them trustworthy to tell personal info to. Women can be “evil”, as well. And we’re all strangers there.

I say work with the dads, not against them, since there’s nothing stopping them from joining anyway and they aren’t given any choice but to either share with a spouse or hide behind a screenname and while using the site any way. If you work with them then they can at least be open about themselves.

Its easy to talk normally on there and use the right pronouns when referring to himself or his spouse. Using DH (Dear Hubby) is how you refer to your spouse and is accepted, cuz no one’s going to say “my wife” without getting someone reporting them to Cafemom. It may be a minority on there, but I’m sure there’s some good dads using the site in cognito and not hurting a dang thing.

Its really dumb.

It’s evidently clear that someone from cafemom got their butt hurt so much that they felt they had to post on the forum. No offense, but you women are going to take this to offense anyways, CafeMom is filled with pms-ing women who instead of should be making dinner and soothing their crying toddlers, they yell at other women who aren’t a part of their mean girls clique.

Having said that, suburbandaddy, stay out of there. You’d hate us women even more.

I’d also like to include that not ALL cafemoms are this way, the MAJORITY ARE THOUGH!

Years of screaming for equal rights and access to everything… huge protests, forced entry into “Men Only” organizations… but boy, you want to join a community dedicated to Moms (which should be an HONOR to them – a man wanting to learn from their wisdom) and LOOK at all the Banshees wailing…

Amazing… you women are the equivalent of your misogynistic male counterparts from the 1920’s.

Brilliantly executed, and well played.

Second, to “Amanda” and all the other sexist acting bitches that are posting. Ya, its retarded he got so offended at Cafemom, but its also equally as stupid that you would sit here and act like a dad doesnt know jack shit about their child or even as weird as it sounds, their wives menstrual cycle. You think you know everything, but if your husband is doing what he should, he should be holding your hand through every step of life, and learning about things on the way. So whos to say he couldnt contribute in some way? fucking moron.

True, most guys don’t want to see posts about pregnancies and breastfeeding, so they don’t go to those threads. But there’s litereally 1000s of other threads that they will be interested in.

It really is dumb to have rule you feel so strong about that you cant’ truly enforce.